Are you looking for advice for parents? Scouring the internet for tips on raising teenagers? Want to know what to say to your teen? Here are a few random things that parents should say to their teenagers.
"I'll always love you, no matter what."
Teenagers must receive the affirmation that their parents love them. They need to know their parents will love them unconditionally. Some teens may feel like they don't meet their parents' expectations, such as getting into a great school. This comment conveys your support for them.
Now, of course this statement doesn't mean you won't be angry or upset with them. You definitely want to let them know that while you may not like some of their behaviors, you will always love them. You should remind them that there will be consequences for their poor choices and misbehavior, but you will love them forever.
"If you are ever being bullied, please let me know."
One of the greatest problems that teenagers face today is bullying. And, unlike when you were going through adolescence, teens today may experience cyber-bullying. Bullying can lead to depression, poor school performance, low self-esteem and much more. It is crucial for parents to let their teens know they can tell them if they are being bullied. This includes sibling bullying. Read "What is Sibling Bullying?" for more details.
On the flip side, parents should also not tolerate bullying behavior. You should let your child know what bullying is, and that if they bully another child there will be serious consequences.
"If you ever feel like you want to harm yourself, please let me know, or tell someone else you trust."
Sadly, teenage suicide takes the lives of many teens every year. This tragedy is a horrific situation for everyone. It is important for parents to tell their teenagers that if they are ever feeling suicidal, they want to know. You can also add that if they do not feel comfortable telling you, to please tell a trusted adult such as a school counselor, minister, teacher, or even a friend's parent.
It is not too absurd to consider having your teenager sign a suicide prevention contract. Many schools have these for all students to sign. Read "Sample Suicide Prevention Contracts" for more insight.
"Choose a career you are passionate about."
Additionally, parents should provide their teenagers with some career guidance. This could be as simple as encouraging them to take career aptitude tests and read a few books on career choices. Ideally, it is best if parents can help their children find job shadowing experiences, attend career camps and more. Click here to read "Career Exploration Activities for Home Schooled Students" for advice. (These activities can be applied to all students, not just home schooled kids.)
"Don't do drugs."
As a parent, it is your responsibility to protect your child from harm. This includes protecting your child from the dangers of drugs. Obviously, you cannot control their actions, but you can try your best to help them make good choices. Read "Should I Let My Kid Smoke Weed" for more advice on this issue.
In addition to telling their children about the harmful affects of drugs, parents should avoid letting their children get in situations where drugs might be available. This might include not letting them go to certain parties without adult supervision.
"Don't drink and drive."
While your children are not allowed to drink yet anyway, the earlier you tell them this, the better. Tell your children that if they do decide to drink after they turn 21, they should never, ever drink and drive. For some examples to share, read "Non Obvious Reasons Why You Should Not Drink and Drive."
"I'm sorry"
Parents should learn to apologize when necessary to their children. For example, if they mess up and yell violently at them, they should apologize for their behavior. Now, of course, teens should never get off the hook, but parents should say "I'm sorry" when necessary. This will teach their teens to apologize when they have done wrong as well.
"Be picky with whom you choose to marry."
Even at the ripe age of sixteen, teens should receive some dating guidance. While obviously parents will not be actively involved in their child's dating life, parents can provide words of wisdom. You can start by encouraging your teenage daughter (or son) to read the book "Ten Stupid Things Women Do to Mess Up Their Lives" By Dr. Laura Schlessinger. You also might read "20 Signs You're Dating Mr. Wrong." for some advice to give your daughter on what not to look for in a guy. Please read "10 Relationship Red Flags and Bad Girlfriend Warning Signs" for some insight on what your son should be careful for.
"Do your homework."
Parents should always encourage their teens and children to do their homework and try their best in school. From ninth grade on, the grades they make can affect the college they attend. Obviously parents cannot force their children to do their school work. However, they can coach them to do their best. In addition, parents should encourage their children to stay in school and graduate on time.
"Get a part-time job."
One of the most beneficial things a child can do to help land future jobs, is to have a successful part time job while in high school. You should encourage, but not force, him or her to get a part time job if you feel he/she is mature enough. For some advice, please read "Jobs for Teens: How to Find a Part-Time Job if You're a Teenager."
These are just ten important things parents should always say to their teenagers. Parenting a teenager is not easy. You need lots of patience, resilience and love.
For more parenting advice, please read "7 Random Parenting Tips and Advice." If you are a step-mother, please read "15 Tips for Stepmoms: How to Handle Problems With Step Children." It might also help to find support through online message boards. Take a look at "Top Websites for Moms: Find Support and Resources Online" for some suggestions. Happy Parenting!
"I'll always love you, no matter what."
Teenagers must receive the affirmation that their parents love them. They need to know their parents will love them unconditionally. Some teens may feel like they don't meet their parents' expectations, such as getting into a great school. This comment conveys your support for them.
Now, of course this statement doesn't mean you won't be angry or upset with them. You definitely want to let them know that while you may not like some of their behaviors, you will always love them. You should remind them that there will be consequences for their poor choices and misbehavior, but you will love them forever.
"If you are ever being bullied, please let me know."
One of the greatest problems that teenagers face today is bullying. And, unlike when you were going through adolescence, teens today may experience cyber-bullying. Bullying can lead to depression, poor school performance, low self-esteem and much more. It is crucial for parents to let their teens know they can tell them if they are being bullied. This includes sibling bullying. Read "What is Sibling Bullying?" for more details.
On the flip side, parents should also not tolerate bullying behavior. You should let your child know what bullying is, and that if they bully another child there will be serious consequences.
"If you ever feel like you want to harm yourself, please let me know, or tell someone else you trust."
Sadly, teenage suicide takes the lives of many teens every year. This tragedy is a horrific situation for everyone. It is important for parents to tell their teenagers that if they are ever feeling suicidal, they want to know. You can also add that if they do not feel comfortable telling you, to please tell a trusted adult such as a school counselor, minister, teacher, or even a friend's parent.
It is not too absurd to consider having your teenager sign a suicide prevention contract. Many schools have these for all students to sign. Read "Sample Suicide Prevention Contracts" for more insight.
"Choose a career you are passionate about."
Additionally, parents should provide their teenagers with some career guidance. This could be as simple as encouraging them to take career aptitude tests and read a few books on career choices. Ideally, it is best if parents can help their children find job shadowing experiences, attend career camps and more. Click here to read "Career Exploration Activities for Home Schooled Students" for advice. (These activities can be applied to all students, not just home schooled kids.)
"Don't do drugs."
As a parent, it is your responsibility to protect your child from harm. This includes protecting your child from the dangers of drugs. Obviously, you cannot control their actions, but you can try your best to help them make good choices. Read "Should I Let My Kid Smoke Weed" for more advice on this issue.
In addition to telling their children about the harmful affects of drugs, parents should avoid letting their children get in situations where drugs might be available. This might include not letting them go to certain parties without adult supervision.
"Don't drink and drive."
While your children are not allowed to drink yet anyway, the earlier you tell them this, the better. Tell your children that if they do decide to drink after they turn 21, they should never, ever drink and drive. For some examples to share, read "Non Obvious Reasons Why You Should Not Drink and Drive."
"I'm sorry"
Parents should learn to apologize when necessary to their children. For example, if they mess up and yell violently at them, they should apologize for their behavior. Now, of course, teens should never get off the hook, but parents should say "I'm sorry" when necessary. This will teach their teens to apologize when they have done wrong as well.
"Be picky with whom you choose to marry."
Even at the ripe age of sixteen, teens should receive some dating guidance. While obviously parents will not be actively involved in their child's dating life, parents can provide words of wisdom. You can start by encouraging your teenage daughter (or son) to read the book "Ten Stupid Things Women Do to Mess Up Their Lives" By Dr. Laura Schlessinger. You also might read "20 Signs You're Dating Mr. Wrong." for some advice to give your daughter on what not to look for in a guy. Please read "10 Relationship Red Flags and Bad Girlfriend Warning Signs" for some insight on what your son should be careful for.
"Do your homework."
Parents should always encourage their teens and children to do their homework and try their best in school. From ninth grade on, the grades they make can affect the college they attend. Obviously parents cannot force their children to do their school work. However, they can coach them to do their best. In addition, parents should encourage their children to stay in school and graduate on time.
"Get a part-time job."
One of the most beneficial things a child can do to help land future jobs, is to have a successful part time job while in high school. You should encourage, but not force, him or her to get a part time job if you feel he/she is mature enough. For some advice, please read "Jobs for Teens: How to Find a Part-Time Job if You're a Teenager."
These are just ten important things parents should always say to their teenagers. Parenting a teenager is not easy. You need lots of patience, resilience and love.
For more parenting advice, please read "7 Random Parenting Tips and Advice." If you are a step-mother, please read "15 Tips for Stepmoms: How to Handle Problems With Step Children." It might also help to find support through online message boards. Take a look at "Top Websites for Moms: Find Support and Resources Online" for some suggestions. Happy Parenting!
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